Chapter 158 I am not embarrassed, it is others who are embarrassed.
The other silent women nearby couldn't help but tear up when they heard this. The women all felt as if they had been wronged for many years and finally got their injustice redeemed.
Excitement, grievance, disbelief, sudden realization, frustration...all kinds of emotions mixed together.
Woo woo, it’s not our problem, it has never been our problem.
For a moment, except for this woman who was crying heartbreakingly out of grievance, the other women either had red eyes or were sobbing silently.
"You, you are making a fuss." The woman's husband scolded, "Don't listen to their nonsense. They are just women, how can they understand?"
Bai Dadan: "You understand? You understand?! Okay, then tell me, what do you understand."
"I, of course I understand." The man felt a little guilty.
But he knew he couldn't show his weakness, so he straightened his chest and shouted, "Since ancient times, giving birth is a woman's job. As the saying goes, men work outside and women work inside..."
Bai Dadan waved his hand and said bluntly, "Who stipulated that men should be the breadwinners and women should be the mistresses? Find out the reason."
"Which book is it written in?" My aunt said that the reason for such a statement is just the conclusion drawn from the patriarchal society's exploitation of women.
As the old saying goes, history is written by the victors.
In matriarchal society, men were still at home doing mending and taking care of children, even though women were responsible for raising children and doing no less work than men...
My aunt said that men and women are the yin and yang, and neither is indispensable in this world.
If everyone gave birth to sons and no one gave birth to daughters, the human race would become extinct.
Men are bold and women are careful. They each have their own strengths and should not be compared.
But how could these people know these profound principles?
Bai Dadan: "Let's not talk about this inside and outside, what does this have to do with the birth of a boy or a girl?"
"Uh, this, this..."
A man on the side saw this and said, "How can you say that? If we decide on sons and daughters, then how do we decide and how do we decide?"
He thought for a long time but couldn't figure out when he wanted his son and daughter, and how to give them to him.
"No one has ever told us that we decided and chose our son or daughter. Why are you blaming us now?"
When others heard this, they also started to agree.
"Yes, if we can decide, how could we not know?"
“No one taught me.”
“That’s right, that’s right!!!”
Bai Dafen sneered at first, then said disdainfully: "Why, you don't want to admit that it's your own problem?"
"I can't blame you guys? Why don't you just say you blame the women?!"
"You said you didn't know and no one taught you, so let me ask you, this woman knows when she gives birth? Who taught her?!"
Bai Dadan said loudly: "That's right, it's just like a woman giving birth, it's all instinct!"
"Do you know what instinct is? It's just like when you're hungry you want to eat, when you're sleepy you want to sleep, and when you're thirsty you want to drink water!"
This idea was put forward by Bai Tao, so the people in Taohua Village would not doubt it.
But the people outside were not from Taohua Village, especially the men. They were naturally very skeptical and started to refute at once.
If it was before, Bai Dadan and the others would definitely not be able to argue, but now they have heard a lot of reasons from Bai Tao on the way here. There are correct reasons, crooked reasons, and some unreasonable reasons that are said to be reasonable. The main point is that I am not embarrassed, but others are embarrassed.
When you firmly believe in your point of view, others will begin to believe in it as well.
Before Bai Tao traveled through time, she was living in an era of knowledge explosion. Compared with ancient people, she could be said to be standing on the shoulders of giants.
If Bai Tao were asked to do something, she might be a little overambitious and not be able to do it, but if she were asked to say, no one in this world has a higher knowledge base than her.
Such a large amount of groundbreaking knowledge has been accumulated over five thousand years of civilization, and the development of electronic technology has accelerated all of this. Under such circumstances, the knowledge is even more unquestionable.
After hearing her advice, the villagers of Taohua Village no longer had any doubt about her words, but kept them in their hearts with the utmost piety and reverence.
In addition, Bai Tao praised her from time to time. The women and children in Taohua Village were extremely confident. They could fight, work and eat, which made them different from those women outside who felt inferior.
In this way, Bai Dafeng=Dan and Bai Dafen did not suffer any loss when facing these people. With the help of their sons and the three villagers who came with them to distribute eggs, they would not be at a disadvantage at all.
Lu Xiaohao and Yang Song, who were attracted by the commotion here, stood not far away and watched the scene.
"Sir, is there such a saying?"
Yang Song was a little confused. Is it really the man who decides whether to have a boy or a girl?
So, those who always complain that they have no son to carry on the family line are just stingy and have not left themselves a son, thus killing themselves off from descendants?
Hiss, that's not right. If it was really a man who decided, then he would definitely want to have a son.
Lu Xiaohao said calmly: "Maybe!"
Yang Song frowned and shook his head: "No, sir, you see, this is really something that men can decide, so how can someone not be able to have a child?"
"All those who go to the temple to pray for children are women." Lu Xiaohao's voice was flat: "Perhaps, these women are kept in the dark."
In order to consolidate the stability of the country, the royal family launched many initiatives and auspicious signs around this, and the common people were not qualified to know whether they were true or false.
Yang Song was stunned for a moment: "Uh... then, then, was it really the man who decided it? Why don't I have any impression of that?"
Lu Xiaohao: "Haven't you heard people say that this is instinct?"
"Some people are just destined to have no children, and you can't force it." After saying that, Lu Xiaohao glanced at Yang Song, wanting to say something but stopping himself, but didn't say anything and turned and left.
Yang Song scratched his neck. Uh, why did he feel that his master's look seemed to be hinting at him?
But he is still young, and it is not time for him to get married and have children.
At this moment, Yang Song came back to his senses, looked at the crowd who were still arguing, and then looked at the back of his master.
Well...should I listen to the fun for a while or follow the master?
Although Lu Xiaohao knew Yang Song's dilemma, he said without turning his head, "If you want to listen, stay."
"Yes, sir." Yang Song said happily, "I will go back and tell you later." He really wanted to know which side won the debate in the end.
Lu Xiaohao had no choice but to accept it.
Bai Tao had no idea that when a few people went to distribute the wedding eggs, they would argue with outsiders about whether the baby would be a boy or a girl.
"Did they suffer any loss?"
"No, I didn't suffer any loss!" Their voices were louder than each other, leaving people speechless time and again.
"Auntie, I'll go call them back right now." Bai Dashan was also helpless. There was no point in arguing with outsiders.
Good night, my little cuties.
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